Jodoh, jangan diperbodoh..

ingat nak komen jer kat pocket's post,
tapi rasa macam nak jadi panjang,
and thinking why not i just put it as a post of mine..
bukan nak tiru idea yer..
cuma rasa macam tajuk nih boleh dikongsikan pendapat dari ramai orang,
untuk panduan sestgh org..

bila kata pasal jodoh,
org yg belum kahwin jer yg takut jodoh dia tepat atau tidak..
tapi bagi orang yg dah kawin,
baru ler dikatakan "dah jodoh, nak wat camner.."

how to know he/she is the one for you..?
well, you never know until you tie the knot..
and, even if you tied it, then you realized he/she is not the one,
it's still called jodoh..
as pocket said,
it's written up there..

let me speak the story of mine..
(tetiba cakap omputih lak..)

i used to look for the best one for me since i'm 18..
used to cry for them, each time they left me..
well, others said, "dah tader jodoh, sudah laa.."
even i knew that she was the one..

but i never made it, finding the right one..
once, about whole world knew i was destined with this one girl,
kept saying i will marry her,
still, she is not the one..

i never thought i will live my whole life with yana..
until that moment of this..
i knew it will be a tough journey for me..
if you read the MFB series, you'll know..

but still then, i never thought yana is the wrong one..
she is the best one for me..
i hope in the other life, she will be my angel in heaven..
if it's not her, i won't have this life i'm enjoying,
and the most improtant, i won't have this naufal boy..

we hope for the perfect one,
but you will never get one..
you will only get the best one for you..
and again, you will never know it until you tie the knot..

even if somebody said "jodoh boleh diubah..",
actually it's not jodoh which can be changed,
it's the choice of with who you want to be tied with..
and again,
your jodoh is already written up there..
it will never change..
maybe we need some alteration on the sentence itself..
how about,
"pasangan boleh diubah..",
"pasangan hidup boleh diubah..",
"bakal isteri/suami boleh diubah..",
etc..

but let us think,
if you keep saying above sentences,
what people will think of you..?
play play aaa..?

even in islam, there is not such thing as berchenta sebelum kahwin..
you married him/her without knowing each other before,
you can only berchenta after the first time you met him/her,
and he/she is your jodoh for your whole life....
how's about that for us in this 21st generation..?
don't say it sucks,
it meant to be like that in the first place..
islam's ways of life are never wrong..
but how's about that..?
we keep looking for our jodoh out there,
which we will never find it..

i'm sorry..
not intend to get emo in this particular case..
some even said to me,
"why did you chose yana when you can get better..?"
then, i put it back to them faces,
"how do you know that i will get all the happiness of life when i'm with yana, if i get marry with other girl..?
everybody sucks at own life..
everybody will still sucks the other way if they married others in the first place..

one word..
BERSYUKUR..

Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan merubah keadaan (nasib)
sesuatu bangsa sehingga bangsa itu mahu merubah keadaan
(nasib) mereka sendiri”. (Ar-Ra’ad:11)

Thursday, November 05, 2009

9 Comments:

Super HaNa said...

hmmmmmm.........

watashi sedang berusaha utk ubah nasib watashi

ehh...
best plak topik nih

Cik Qemm said...

dah baca post pocket, kini melompat ke sini pulak.

bersyukur. memang itu yang patut diamalkan,and for me, berdoa adalah senjata untuk memanjangkan hubungan.

jaga relationship, insya-allah berkekalan.

cHeRyNa PiReS said...

siap dengan dalil ye! dun mess with ustaz bendul (i'm just teasing yuou...jangan marah k!)

huhaaaaaa...tadi dah reply kat post pocket. skang nak reply kat bendul pulak. arituh dah reply kat blog amy.

cut and paste boleh ke?

jodoh - selagi kita bersamanya.

mesti ada kita, dia dan Dia.

Sekarang sha hanya ada kita dan Dia.

dia tah mane2...kalau cari, guna akal...jumpalah. dalam pada tu doa dengan Dia, supaya mudahkan urusan mencari dia.

Tapi kalau sampai bila-bila pon dia tak ada, Dia pon cintaku jugak!

tak gitu?

Pokjat said...

Well said..first comment aku anyway.Aku ingat hang post pasai pulau aman ka tadi hehe

bendul said...

hana: yer.. kita selalu kena ubah nasib kita dari yg tak baik kepada yang baik..

qemm: dalam apa2 hal pun, kalo kita bersyukur, insyaAllah, kita akan redha ngan apa yg ditentukanNya.. tapi jgn ler terlalu berserah plak, tader usaha tader guna jugak kan..

sha: jgn ler panggil aku ustaz sha.. segan ler aku..
dia tu kalo dicarik mesti ada.. semuanya Dia dah tentukan.. kena ada usaha laa.. aper yg penting, strive for the best, n redha ngan ketentuan..

jat: "well said" tu perli ker, betul2 bermaksud.. hehehe..
pasal pulau aman takleh nak komen aaa.. isu sensitif tu..

Pocket said...

wah wah!!
bendul, i can only say...
thanks for the long comment :)

rasa besh bila karangan ku menyentuh pembaca ku, credit to MizzAmy who is the trigger and originator

Pokjat said...

Betui2 la nie.Memang isu sensitip pun.Tapi bukan kene ISA pun hehe

kojah said...

betol2...tang ayat bawah tueee...

Anonymous said...

nice posting.. n good for u to have such a nice yana

 
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